I’ve been thinking some more about Dr. Abreu (see my last post). You can learn more about him and the prize awarded to him at TED Ideas Worth Spreading, a website I love!
A music teacher who started a program, small and unknown, in a Venezuelan garage with no guarantees and very little financial support that has now become a worldwide inspiration. His story brings me back to these ideas for living a meaningful life:
- Following the thread of our passion leads us to places we can’t yet imagine! Predictions often just get in the way.
- The trick is to make the journey the IT – as meaningful as any ending we’ve imagined.
- Any time we are postponing our joy (discouraged, in the past or the future, or just “getting it done,” etc.) we can re-tune our focus to what’s positive in our current experience (the only time we are truly guaranteed to have).
- The meaning of life is to live that which we love, and to find joy in the process of discovering more of what we love (knowing what we don’t want helps us know what is meaningful to us). For example, you may say, “I don’t love what I’m doing now,” or “I don’t know what I want to do.” You could also say, “I can be happy about this and that regardless of what I’m doing.” Or, “Here’s what I know I love so far, and there’s more to come, it’s on it’s way, and I expect it will be great!”
- Dr. Abreu didn’t have any guarantees of changing the world by teaching 11 students. Following the thread of what we love, and being happy in the process, does lead us in the best way to be of service to humanity.
- Trying to figure out all the hows of an idea ahead of time will only slow us down. Dr. Abreu had an idea fueled by passion and faith that was beyond his knowing of “how” it would go. I would say that it’s not “luck” made him successful it is believing.
The most satisfactory experiences in my life are also based on strongly inspired ideas (often I can’t explain why – I just know it feels right), a willingness to leap, a lack of attention to “naysayers” (including my own inner-critic), and overwhelming faith and focus on the positive. Lately, my scale of believing has been tested by a few naysayers who say, “Sure, but how?!” Or simply, “I don’t think you can.” In the other great milestones of my life, the balance of the scale was tipped toward conviction, desire, faith, etc., much like Dr. Abreu. The overridden part of the scale included the hows, what-ifs, and voices of doubt. I know that my clarity is compromised when I consider what others are seeking for me or what would make others more comfortable. Some of my best decisions have made some people feel quite uneasy. So, it helps me to remember that it’s not my job to follow the thread that makes other people happiest. This is why I’m so grateful to be practicing following my inner-compass, my thread of joy.
Dr. Abreu’s story also reminds me that the joy in life is in the process of creating something, and not a fixed end result. He didn’t say, “When I have 30,000 students then I will be happy.” He was happy with 11 students and he was inspired to keep following the thread of possibility.
The trick is to enjoy wherever we are a bit or a lot more, to keep turning toward what fuels the energy of possibility within us, and let go of needing to know the rest, because we know that the journey is the richness of our lives.
Love & Peace on your adventures!
Coyote
PRACTICE IDEA: Rather than looking at where you are “not,” dedicate 10 minutes a day for a week to this writing exercise: 1. List 10 things you appreciate in your current place of possibility (your life right now). 2. List 10 possibilities for tomorrow or a year or more from now that would be meaningful to you, delightful, surprising, satisfying, over-the-top fun! Notice if your inner-voice is limiting what you write, cramping your imagination, or judging these things as possible or not. If you have a lot of internal “naysaying” then you may want to work on freeing your life from the inner-critic too!
“As you set out…ask that the way be long” (C. Cavafy), or short and sweet, or however it may be, but let the scale reside in the realm of your joy!

Photo: The Possibilities Are Delicious!/iPhone/Queens NY/Coyote Karrick